What is a sexual simmer? A pot of water on the stove top will never boil without any heat. Turn on the element and you’ll eventually see tiny bubbles surfacing to the top. Keep the heat coming and the bubbles will get bigger and more abundant. With persistence, before you know it, the bubbles cannot … Continue reading How to infuse each day with a sexual simmer.
Are you hiding, repressing, or ignoring something in your life? Chances are, you are not doing a very good job of keeping it tucked away. At least, not as good as you think. If I’m wrong, and you have managed to create a successful façade, it will not last for long. At some point, your … Continue reading Your secrets are out! We are all transparent AF.
North America has a strange association with nudity. In this culture, nudity has become intrinsically linked with sexuality, creating and contributing to a cascade of individual and societal problems. I spoke recently with a German woman who moved to Canada as an adult and raised her family here. She was shocked when her Canadian neighbor … Continue reading Nudity is not always Naughty
People tend not to believe me when I tell them “I’ve never been on a bad Tinder date.” I love the reactions. Those perplexing looks make me smile inside, like I have treasured secrets or a witch's brew. But, alas! I do not. You too can have successful online dating … Continue reading Why I’ve Never Been on a Bad Tinder Date (And how to use dating apps like a pro!)