It has been long taught to children that 'fairness' is a guiding principle of life. It seems to be in the social consciousness and fabric of our society to teach children to 'be fair'. We place concerted effort in messaging this – “Play fair” “Be fair and share with your friend” “Take turns, it’s only fair” … Continue reading Forget About “Fairness” & Set Yourself Free
A few days ago, I received a very moving and inspiring Christmas card. On the outside, it offered a very simple message: “Joy” On the inside, it offered a humbling reminder that joy is not a product of our external circumstances - it is rather a state of being that is available to each and … Continue reading Grief, Gratitude & The Secret to Joy
What is a sexual simmer? A pot of water on the stove top will never boil without any heat. Turn on the element and you’ll eventually see tiny bubbles surfacing to the top. Keep the heat coming and the bubbles will get bigger and more abundant. With persistence, before you know it, the bubbles cannot … Continue reading 6 Ways to Infuse Each Day with a Sexual Simmer
Are you hiding, repressing, or ignoring something in your life? Chances are, you are not doing a very good job of keeping it tucked away. At least, not as good as you think. If I’m wrong, and you have managed to create a successful façade, it will not last for long. At some point, your … Continue reading Your secrets are out! We are all transparent AF.
People tend to disbelieve that “I’ve never been on a bad Tinder date.” I love the reactions. Those perplexing looks make me smile inside, like I have treasured secrets or a witch's brew. But, I do not. You too can have successful online dating experiences. And the best part, is that it is really very … Continue reading Why I’ve Never Been on a Bad Tinder Date (And how to use dating apps like a pro!)